His and Her Health

Well, this is not first time sex related, this first question that is...

But, just curious, is it even possible to have an STD if you have not had sex before?

Also, the second time with my boyfriend and I had sex (2 days after first try, stopped due to bleeding), the second time I bled more, is that normal? Or is that due to actually breaking the hymen? (I believe thats what it is called)

Um, we were both virgins, he wants to make sure I'm okay. I want to ask my Own questions now

1. Yes it is possible to have an STD if you have not had sex.

2. It's normal to have some bleeding after first time sex and is probably due to the hymen breaking (partially the first time, more the second time).

3. I hope you are using protection - to prevent STDs AND pregnancy!

4. It's good to ask questions! Welcome.

Thanks for answering my questions!

And yes, of course we are using protection.

I have read many stories about the consequences of having sex and have decided to hold back a little... I don't think its to late to say "no"...
He gave me the choice, I was confortable, but recently it dawned on me whether IF something were to actually happen...

It is your choice to have sex or not and it is not to late to say no.Sounds like your boyfriend is very considerate of you and your feelings.Here is a link for more information , just browse the different articles.
www.teenwire.org

He is Very considerate. I know what I want to say, but, he's sensitive... He thinks its all his fault and he doesn't want me in pain...

Any suggestions as to how to ease into the topic? O.o

[Also, IF I were to try it again, how long should I wait to heal? (been 3 days now) ]

Thank you very much again, and for the website.

There will be soreness when you try again. If you are not lubricated enough you might feel some irritation.A couple days wait should work.Stop if it hurts.