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I'm a 21 year old virgin. Although I do not plan on having sex soon I would like to be prepared and have it as comfortable as possible. My question is should I get a vibrator or a dildo to get use to the feel? Thank you.

I think that that is a very good idea.

thanks for the reply. should i buy a small one or a vibrating one? do i use lubricant?

it depends. First, have u any difficulties inserting tampons? If so, start with inserting those then move on to a smooth one-inch metal tapered vibrator. Then you could graduate up to another vibrator or dildo as you wish.<P>If you don't have problems with tampon insertion, then you could go for a vibrator. A one and three quarter inch wide one would be a fairly realistic target.I like the smooth variety myself but you could try a few on-line sex stores and pick out whichever one you fancy.

Having lubricant is good. You could try KY jelly and reapply as necessary. I like to warm my vibrator, by running it under a hot tap, before insertion.That way insertion is a lot more comfortable.

I should add that many men would have a 2 inch wide penis. But you might prefer to GRADUALLY get used to wider sizes.

i do wear tampons occasionally. putting them in is slightly uncomfortable, but for a second. removing them is more painful. thanks for all the help. think i will try wahat you guys suggested.

Let us know at any stage if you need any more help.

Hey there!<BR> I am 19 years old and just lost my virginity. I wish I had had a vibrator before I had sex to get used to the sensation. Good Luck!