His and Her Health

I need help!! is there any women out there who used to be able to have orgasm during intercourse, but that can't anymore. and I am taking about with same partner. I've been married for 17 years. she claims that first five years she could orgasm with me during intercourse. we have two children 6 years apart. she gained a lot of weight during that 12 year period and I was'nt exactly supportive. She claims her inability is do to laziness and lack of interest in doing it this way. she always does with oral or manual. We really have'nt tried to achieve orgasm by intercourse because it was never an issue (or so I thought). It now is because show told me (she was drunk) that she had orgasms during intercourse with her old boyfriend every time they had sex and that he was bigger!!

I never give too much credence to anything anybody says when drunk.<P>Welcome to the board. I'm sure you will get help here. Not an expert in this department myself.<P>

Vaginal orgasmic ability has a lot to do with PC muscle tone (among other things). So yes, the ability can go away.<P>However, I don't think that's your real question. I'm also a regular poster on a particular board for men you may find interesting and very supportive, that deals directly with size comparison issues. I started posting there because I was such a strong proponent of getting the PC muscles in shape so that men of all sizes could be fully enjoyed, but I've come to really like the people there. E-mail me and I will send you the link; I can't post it here.