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#39120

i don't know what is going on 1 Year, 6 Months ago

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well am about to be twenty and i lost my virginity about a year ago.within this time i have only had sex eight times.that is only because i don't enjoy it, i spend my time avoiding sex beause it hurts so bad.now i have a new boyfriend who is much hicker and longer than the first boyfriend and i am afraid to have sex. i know it is going to hurt me and it makes me nervous.
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wenwen1818

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#39121

Re: i don't know what is going on 1 Year, 6 Months ago

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You need to see a healthcare provider that specializes in pelvic pain and sexual dysfunction to assess the problem. It could be a hormonal problem ( birth control maybe), a skin issue, a muscular issue, emotional stress, etc. Sex should be fun and emjoyable, with no fear or pain attached. The earlier you address the issue the better.

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Amy Stein, MPT
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Re: i don't know what is going on 1 Year, 5 Months ago	Karma: 12
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Re: i don't know what is going on 1 Year, 5 Months ago

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It is hard to say without assessing the muscles. Commonly the muscles affected by vestibulodynia are the superficial transverse perineum, pubococcygeus, puborectalis b/c they are close to the vestibule; however, it could be any of the pelvic floor muscles b/c they are so close together. It would be best to see a healthcare provider. My book, Heal Pelvic Pain, has a good illustrations with explanations.

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Re: i don't know what is going on 1 Year, 5 Months ago	Karma: 12
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