His and Her Health

I've been with my boyfriend over a year. he has a problem that's getting worse and he doesn't want to get help.before we became sexualy active he said it takes a while to come,well sometimes it's an hour or longer lately he hasn't come at all . he said it's rare for him to come in at short peroid of time,but not being able to come at all is problem,what should i do i'm fustrated he thinks the solution is to go for hours& hours i say that's crazy,he doesn't smoke, a little over weight but he works out, help.

Dear Frustrated

I can understand that you are unhappy but with putting your boyfriend under pressure it won't get any better and you won't find the solution for the problem in this forum. I think it's best if he sees a doctor and checks what can be done. I'm sorry that we can't give you any other help.

How is it for him. How does he feel about not coming or coming very late? Is it no problem to him?

frustrated, if your boyfriend is unhappy about taking and hour or more to orgasm he should want to see a doctor about that. Does he masturbate often. Some men who do use so tight a grip to orgasm that a vagina cannot duplicate the tightness he needs to bring on an orgasm.It must be tiring for you to go so long.Do you have any physical problems from that.