His and Her Health

Does size really matter?


just thought this would make an interesting topic... this is my first post so i'm sorry if its been discussed already.

Mike, it's been discussed often. But I've given this some thought recently. My answer is a qualified no.

For women (me anyway), vaginal sensation isn't on the skin surface. Once you get inside, there aren't many nerve endings on the skin. The nerves that need to get stimulated are deeper beneath the surface, so pressure is required.

But is a big penis needed for this? IMO, no. A big one makes it easy I guess, since it can't help but press in all directions, but it's more limiting too - in and out are about the full repertoire. Personally, I'd rather be with a man who had a smaller but very hard erection since it becomes a more creative instrument of pleasure. You can do a lot more with it.

My opinion is either large or hard will do just fine. Though love and creativity trump either one.

Wow. Thanks for the intelligent reply.
I couldn't agree more.

Mike009,
How people come up with their names for these forums and or whatever might be the significance of the name, “Is beyond me sometimes.â€

BStrong,
Thanks for the input. I never heard of "Tantra" until i read your post; upon which time i did a quick look up - interesting! I'll definitly have a closer look into that, thanks again.

Mike

(btw mike isnt my real name, just a random forum identity. the 009 represents me not wanting to have to go through the hassle of finding a mike-something with availability... 009 is always available. hehe)

Mikeoo9.
Guess 007 would be all taken up! â€

The g-spot is supossed to be 3" inside a women's vagina. That's what you're aiming for.

Actually, the so-called "G spot" is about 3 cm inside the upper vaginal wall- more pronounced and sensitive in some women than in others. Your partner will tell you what feels good if you're open to hearing it.

Hi Dr. Bruce
Doctor i have tried to find the G-spot but till today i didnt get any sign of g-spot ,
but the place is right where i stimulate with my finger and she start feeling bladders full and wanna pee ,
i have search all from starting till i got some kind of bone , but i dont feel any spot there
but messaging 5 to 10 min the upper vagina wall with finger she ejectulates few and it smells dead fish .
hope to get more detail on how to find G-spot,
thanking you .

Hi Mike,
I wanted to answer your question about size... I believe size does not matter. How you work your member is more important. I have found that women who say size matters, have delt w/ a small penis that didn't perform to their expectations (it wasn't really the size that was the problem, it was that the deed didn't satisfy them). I have been w/ tiny (way under averaged) sized males, some who took me to the moon and others who had me feeling unsatisfied. I have also had large sized males, some who were awesome and the others too big for comfort (there are issues w/ being too big). Sometimes big is not better. I, myself, don't like 'em big... I found (if the penis is too large) it is uncomfortible, is usually quicker than I would like and is intimidating. If you want me... no matter your size... be attentive to my needs. So, please, don't feel insecure about your member. Just remember the more you perseverate on it, the more likely you are to "under" perform...
Happy Doings...

as a woman.. size doesnt matter.. at all. its all in the emotions you give. women thrieve on feeling sexy, loved.. we want to be with you fully.. if you give us that and show us your sexy side sex will be amazing!!

Just as a note to you "Mike" - When I was...um...de-flowered by my bf(at the time) I hated his larger member...later I found out that it had nothing to do with lossing my virginity. I prefer a smaller fellow down there. There are more possible angles, possitions and fun to be had. Honestly, the girl should love you for YOU...nothing else!