His and Her Health

I am a 21 year old boy. in my religion it is prohipetted to have sex if not married.even secret hapit is not allowed.

unfortunatly, Im not married yet. I will get married after one year or more.

the problem is the abnormal sexual lust or libido. it bothers me a lot.

I want to stop my libido in the short-term. I mean I want a drug or herb or anything just to discourage it during this one year. after stoping this drug or any other solution I want to go back as now.

An herb that is likely to help is Saw Palmetto. Also try working in a daycare taking care of children, although I imagine your culture might think that would be a strange thing for a man to do. In any case, stay real busy, the year will go by quickly.
Rich

why would you want to stop your libido? you're 21 years old, go have as much sex as possible.
God wouldn't have given you a penis if he didnt want you to enjoy it! you probably shouldnt rush to get married either. it sounds like you wanna get married just so you can have sex and not feel guilty about it, but you have nothing to feel guilty about to begin with.

Mike, you don't get it. Singles is of a culture and religion that forbids sexual intercourse and masturbation until marriage.
You should heed your own signature.

Ruby, theres many religeons and spiritual beliefs that prohibit many things. But that doesnt necesarily mean that followers of said beliefs have to completly bind themselves to it. They're guidelines and should be understood and accepted as guidelines. When its at the point where someone wants to medicate something thats completly natural, it becomes a problem.

Sorry, Mike,

You may disagree with Single's beliefs, but it's not really helpful to tell him to go out and have as much sex as possible when he believes that even private masturbation is wrong. Also, note that he's from Saudi Arabia. The possible consequences of "going out and having sex" could be severe.

But I would like to assure him that his libido is not "abnormal" as he seems to think. It's completely normal. If he chooses not to act on it, his body will take care of some of the need through wet dreams. I hope he doesn't believe those are sinful too! Regular ejaculation is important for prostate health and besides, there's no way to stop it anyway.

Single, who's been telling you that having sexual thoughts and needs at 21 is abnormal?