His and Her Health

sorry - just adding thoughts as they come to me. It started, this EA, around 2 years ago when my wife and I both noticed that on climax I would break out in goosebumps all over my body - I thought this was just a nice new addition to the orgasm experience, along with the tension in my throat which was also new. I then noticed that it was instead of, not in addition to, any sensation in my penis, which remains numb during ejaculation, but not at any other time.

Tension in your throat? Gosh, that brings back memories. I used to get a funny feeling in my throat, kind of like the feeling I get when I've been running really hard. Anyway, that would happen before I'd climax.

But it hasn't happened for years. Anyone else experience any sensations in the throat? Odd question, I know. But any similarities are interesting.

Originally posted by Gaijin:
@Dan 1121: Perhaps ur sudden O was due to the remnant of Yohimbe in ur system. Mayb some healing happening? Keep us posted if u get more of those without the Yohimbe.

@Happygoluffy: during the 2008 - 2009 period I had 9/10 or 10/10 orgasms - several times! Due to various kinds of accidental choice of food and/or supplement. However, they simply stop working after a while. Anyone else experiencd this? Sadly, now I am having 1 - 4/10 sensations.

Guys - how r the PC muscle relaxation ppl faring? Is that a permanent cure for u guys? Didn't work much with me.

And also - doesn't Yohimbe have negative health effects? @Gaijin No I dont think so because last time I took Yohimbe was on Saturday. That is 4 days ago. I think its the vitamins. I konw sick mentioned it took a while before they really started to work. I just think if I masterbate when I am actually horny I do have better orgasms. A lot of times its forced like I will jerk off and not even be in the mood to start. I can almost tell if its going to be a good orgasm to start if my dick is sensitive without lubrication. If it feels good and I get hard easy without lube most of the time it will be a good orgasm I have noticed.

Originally posted by needhelpage31:
Tension in your throat? Gosh, that brings back memories. I used to get a funny feeling in my throat, kind of like the feeling I get when I've been running really hard. Anyway, that would happen before I'd climax.

But it hasn't happened for years. Anyone else experience any sensations in the throat? Odd question, I know. But any similarities are interesting. I noticed I get that feeling as well I got it the other day running. Is that a sign of bad health like cardiovascular disease?

hi Guys

I'd appreciate a little help with where to begin with some trials and experiments to see if I can improve my orgasm. If you recall mine happened instantly after a vasectomy and I have been to see sex therapists and normal therapists and am not convinced its in my head.

I have a normal sex drive and I mostly feel the build up, just nothing on ejaculation so am confused if this is anhedonia or premature ejaculation.

I won;t take chemicals as I am in to homeopathy, and trying brupropion made me feel ill, so I dont know where to start.

I should explain I am dyslexic so reading through this forum is hard work for me and thats why i ask for help.

I like the idea of trying vitamins and natural remedies and also the 'relaxing exersices' & abstinence?

Perhaps if someone could find the time to help me they coudl outline some of the reported successes on this forum? In fact is there not a summary somewhere of this stuff?

Sorry to sound 'lazy' but this is genuine I do struggle to read large amounts of text.

Hi,
@danbo800 and gaijin I'm encouraged to hear it is actually possible to have an orgasm after EA has occured. I stoped trying different suplements and medications as they actualy gave me less pleasure by somehow eliminating the buildup that we all know. When I took yohimbine and another time wellbutrin the buildup was reduced and the following sensation was nill as usual. Considerring some of the success others have seen I'm gonna keep on experimenting with suplements.

I am still unsatisfied with the exposure EA is given, for some reason I'm thinking if we had an official organization, sums of money offered to docs for expert research, an not only a internet site with references to some documents about the subject but actual graphs and surveys covering such info as the chances of having oragsm post EA or how many men even have it, we would be on our way to finding a cure.

Right now there just simply is no research on EA I mean its not even a word in the dictonary. As we all know products for mens sexuality are either to delay ejaculation, cause erection but ask for something to increase sensation, let alone cause orgasm and you might as well be talking to a doctor about womens g-spot in the 1800s.

Well I havent had the success on a continual basis. Some days its better then others its back to the same old bad orgasm. It dont make sense. Occasionally I do have a normal orgasm or pretty much near how it used to be. Cant seem to make sense of why sometimes it is good and other times it is not.

This site is slower for me now. When you click on post reply or turn pages it takes longer then normal. I am used to sudden turn to the next page like it used to do now it delays. even scrolling it delays. I liked the site how it was before.

We had no choice but to get away from the old bulletin board code, it was ancient and did not integrate well with other systems.

This page load delay we suspect may be because of all of the forwards that we put into the web server, these forwards have to be processed prior to the pages being loaded.

This ensures that all of the old URLs that are now broken get redirected correctly. There are at least 6,000 of these rules that have to be tried before it loads each page, so we are assuming that this is a processing speed issue.

The good news is that at some point in the future we will be able to remove these rules as Google will at that point have updated it's links to our site accordingly. We apologize for any inconvenience in the meantime and appreciate your participation in the community.

In the future if you could please post questions related to the technological workings of the site in the technical support forum that we just created that would keep this topic clean.

Thanks & best regards,

Vibrance Administration

To Admin, The technical problem (multiple browsers automatically opened after exiting the forum) I mentioned yesterday has disappeared. Thanks for your help. By the way, interested to know what was the problem. Thanks.

michaelsad,

After receiving your notice, I did some troubleshooting and found that the issue you described was related to an odd combination of Facebook Connect, the forum software, and Internet Explorer 7 (but only IE7 with Protected Mode disabled). With Protected Mode enabled, users got a constant refresh-type activity. I have removed the Facebook Connect option from all but the Home page and that seems to have resolved the issue.

BTW, we are working fervently to reduce page load times in the forums as well.

Thank you for your patience and the bug report. For future issues, or suggestions, we have added a Technical Support forum.

where are our friends ?

Probably turned off by the slowness of the site now. Been kinda boring in here lately. Has anyone noticed any improvements. I am kind of back to having not so good orgasms again. The Yohimbe worked the first few times I took it now its not doing much. Might double up my dosage of Inositol and choline and see if that helps. I still take the b complex just for the hell of it. How is everyone else doing?

Apart as a life-time sufferer of EA , I am suffering a degrading in sensitivity of penis at the moment.... noticed since few months ago , perhaps due to aging. I am taking supplements , B complex including inositol and choline, Omega 3, Zinc, Royal Jelly, Vitamin E .... awaiting result.

[ Incidentally, I think I had a prostatitis (uncomfort feeling) since end of June and recovered in end September. Recovering was by itself without seeing doctors. There has been no good feeling at all during sex during the three-month period. I think my prostate is still under recovering stage. My degrading of penis sensitivity happened before this prostatitis event].

I am actually going to try this testosterone booster supplement called T bomb. And I might get some horny goat weed. I believe if I was naturally aroused and got hard easier I think that would help the orgasm. From experience I can say when I am aroused easier and turned on more that the orgasms are close to normal. It is when I masterbate and force the issue when I dont feel much pleasure. Sadly I could go a few weeks and never really feel too turned on. Sex is much more normal with a woman as opposed to masturbating.