His and Her Health

Please believe what I am sharing is real and not imagined. I am a 50-year-old man, and for about 20 years, I have had what I call brain fog, but I only get it when I have erotic stimulation by myself.
The symptoms are a great decrease in my mental sharpness, intellect, ability to communicate clearly, cognitive thought process and a feeling of paranoia that those around me sense something is different. I do, at times, have people ask me if everything is allright, etc.
When my head is clear, I am sharp and a business professional. But I have always had a high sense of erotic desire, and have turned to masturbation at times for pleasure. Whether I orgasam or not, I will always get brain fog, and it usually lasts for two or three days. What is unusual is that if I have sex with my wife, I do not get brain fog at all.
I do not want to get into the psychological or moral issues, but rather, please if anyone can help me, I am certain the reason i get this is an imbalance in the chemicals associated with pleasure and my brain. Please help if anyone is familiar with this problem and is certain of what might help.

Thank you

dudeman,since your "brain fog"occurs only when you have masturbated there may be an underlying physical condition . Maybe a visit to your doctor for a check up would be a good start, and please tell the doctor about the brain fog.

How does your body know to react so differently between your hand and a vagina? What could possibly be chemically different between the two? Unless you're talking pheromones or something like that, which is not medically proven to any solid degree that I've heard of, this has got to be psychological. Certainly all our emotions have a chemical basis, so you can argue semantics here, but I don't think the trigger is chemical, since that is hard to explain.

The fact that you mention NOT wanting to talk about psychological or moral issues seems to already suggest you know the answer and don't want to hear it. In my personal opinion, your wording in "having turned to masturbation AT TIMES for pleasure" sounds somewhat apologetic, as if you have some guilt around it. I would never word it that way. I frankly turn to masturbation WHENEVER I FEEL LIKE IT, and have no guilt whatsoever. And certainly no brain fog. In fact, it puts me at ease as I no longer have to be so preoccupied with sexual fantasies and my physical urge.

So I think you have guilt issues, and a talk therapist might help. But I get the feeling that's not what you want to hear.

i have the same problem , pls dudeman contact me asap !!!
i think i can help u ????
email me plzzz

I have exactly the same thing (I'm 26), but in my case there's no deference between masturbation or regular sexual intercourse. I always get this strange brain fog. It make me kinda like to turn off from social interaction, I'm afraid to spoke with other people my social phobia becomes more noticeable, some times I get stammer. Sometimes I'm unable to write in English (like now - I make lot of errors (thanks God for FF spell check and google )) and i make lot of typo mistakes (probably due to my ADHD).

But what i discovered, is that when i take prozac (fluoxetine) (I take it for depression) it make my problems more blurry. So now when I'm having sexual intercourse I always take the fluo pill wright after. Plus I noteced that this sexual "side effect" becomes most noticeable around 24h after sexual intercourse/masturbation. Some Ginkgo biloba pills helps as well (with minerals like magnesium and zinc and some other) plus lot of high mineral water with magnesium. Green tea is good to (probably some lemon water would me good as well (vitamin C is good for brain)) But despite that it still does not solve the problem. It just makes it less noticeable. I noticed as well that this brain fog starts to aper especially when I'm alone and watching some pics/porn, and it gets more and more when i start to do the usual things . Some workaround that I'm using is not to come. Just before I come i stop any interaction (masturbation/intercourse) or i put my hand over the prostate to stop the ejaculation outside. Instead of that i make inside ejaculation. It makes my brain fog little less noticeable plus I can recover more quickly for another sexual intercourse.

hi , can u pls contact me in person , i mean on my email , i have the same problem , and u have showed me some hope , may God bless you plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz email me in person ....
thankyou

Well no problemo but, I can't find your email

pls mail me
i wonder y u cant see my mail .
any way thanks for the contact.


Moderator's Note
Email addresses are not allowed in posts. You may put it in your profile for others to contact you.

You must go to u'r profile settings -> forum settings -> Look and layout -> change Yes to no on hide my email. Or just use my Gtalk contact info , user name is the same as my email, or you can reach me through skype (put mouse over skype icon under my avatar and you will see contact info).

And just like i was saying right after 24h after the ejaculation i have had major side effects, due to that event day earlier. Now I'm feeling ok, my typo is much better. You may try using very helpful site patients like me where you can track all your mood conditions or if you have got some ADHD or any other metal condition it is great tool to track all of you'r symptoms using nice charts.

plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz its in my profile , pls moderator its the matter of life and death .... pls allow him to see my email and let him contact me , pls do this favor to me ....
thanks alot

exactly same with me after 24 hour , pls pls contact me ... let me do the settings
thaaaaaaaaaaanks alot

moderator of this great site , thanks alot , i have done the settings
thansk again