His and Her Health

I am male, 20 yrs old.. I do masturbation 1 time in around 2 or 3 days... I dont know if this is connected..
Recently, I tried to have sex with my girlfriend... She is damn hot and sexy.. My member just gets really excited even if she touches me.. I hope you are getting what i mean...
Even if we hug, i get an erection.. Few days back, we met together alone.. I mean it was like we were doing foreplay for around 2 hrs.... i mean oral and all that stuff.. But, when I decided of penetration, I mean i lost erection.. She tried to get my erection back.. and it happened and i wore condom... But still, I lost it when i was trying to penetrate.. Actually it was difficult and it was taking time to penetrate as she was virgin so it was difficult...

i failed to do as i was loosing erection everytime.. I was so embarrassed.. A girl was naked infrontof me and i was not getting erection.. Now thats odd bcos generally i get erection even if i think of having sex.. What can be the reason??? And this was the first time i ever tried sex in my life..

To tell you some minute details... I didnt take food for around 13 hrs continuous.. And after i took food after this long time being hungry.. i did sex after an hour of meal... And the meal i took was pizza and all that fast food stuff...

I masturbate frequently and i never face problem of getting or holding an erection.. Also, my girlfriend is very hot so its also not her problem that she isnt able to excite me...

Am i having erectile disfunction problem?

Do not worry ,your reaction to attempting intercourse for the first time is probably the result of performance anxiety. What you ate has nothing to do with it.You are young and inexperienced don't be embarrassed. You need to continue to try, practice makes perfect is and old saying .

Can I have chances of having problem of Erectile disfunction? I am worried about that.

I think it is extremely unlikely that you have erectile dysfunction. You have nerves and you're not helping things by worrying so much. I know it's distressing, but some day you'll laugh about this.

Take your time. Don't worry if you lose your erection when you put on the condom. One thing to do to distract yourself from your own worries is to focus on her pleasure while while you're waiting for your erection comes back.

I will be glad if what u r saying is right because i was so embarrassed in front of my girlfriend.
May be I wont have that problem next time.

Some women think men should know everything about performance from the very first time , well its her first time also. It helps if you can talk about it and possibly ease your anxiety. Its not funny but a sense of humor could help. This does not sound like ED .
Good luck.

I have the same problem !!


Can you please tell me how you came over it ?? You've been in my shoes and you know how hard it is. you can write to me at Thanks mate.

-Shany