His and Her Health

I am a 17 year-old healthy, athletic male 5' 8" 130 lbs

Up until about a week before I started dating my first girlfriend I had been masturbating regularly on average 4 times a week. I always thought it was gross and by the time I decided I was going to date my current girlfriend I decided to stop masturbating.

Upon asking her out we got into things really quickly and I noticed within the first week that when we would get intimate I would never hold a consistent erection and I would leak cum in my underwear. It has been clear at times and white at others.

This problem continued for 2 months and as we started getting closer I realized that having my underwear always be wet was rather embarrassing and I ALWAYS lost my sex drive after about 10 minutes of foreplay

I decided that this wasn't going to go away on its own and I started masturbating nightly in an attempt to fix things, but there has been no change after about a month of consistent masturbation. When I masturbate EVERYTHING is normal other than my recent lack of sex desire and then as soon as I get together with my girlfriend again, it goes back to weak erections and leaking. During foreplay I feel absolutely nothing other than the wetness that proceeds it. I have scoured the internet and come up with nothing.

Does anyone know what is wrong or what I can do to fix it?

The "leaking" is normal. The rest however, is not, and I don't know what to say about that, other than the obvious probable psychological rut you might well be dug into now.

Shadoninja, as an inexperienced young man you will have these problems . It is a matter of performance anxiety .Here is a link to a website that may help you. www.plannedparenthood.org .
Click on Teen Talk.

Doesn't that condition only happen when you are currently thinking about performance anxiety? Because it still happens on days where we kiss in the car before she goes home and, in a situation like that, I know we aren't going to go anywhere further than that.

Here is a link to some information at plannedparenthood.org that deals with what is happening to you. Please read all of it. www.plannedparenthood.org/teen-talk/sex-...-erections-25402.htm

That is very interesting! Yeah I have been under a LOT of stress lately so I think it is a safe bet that that has something to do with it.

But my last question is if leaking is normal how much leaking is normal? Because there is like a full load in my underwear and saying that all that seamen/precum isn't part of the reason behind my loss of sex desire and erection just seems impossible

You might want to see a urologist and have this discussion with him/her. You can be examined and treated if need be.