His and Her Health

This is a little bit embarrasing and i'm not trying to brag in any way. I have an issue with my penis size every time I have sex with a girl she either bleeds or finds it extremely painful. I used to think it was just with the one girl but lately I have been sleeping with a few and they are all having the same issue.

I have tried getting them really turned on and wet beforehand and also using lots of lube this helps a little but they still experience a fair amount of pain and sometimes bleeding. This is causing me some serious issues because sometimes the girls will not want to sleep with me again because of the pain it caused them. So I have now been trying to just use other ways of getting girls off but I really enjoy sex and want to continue with it.

Has anyone got any advice on what else I could do to help aliviate the pain for them as this is causing major issues in my sex life.

Use a lubrication every time. Also, foreplay helps with the natural lubrication as well as increasing the blood flow to the area....these all will help. If you have a good relationship, then discuss it with the woman. You can even massage the perineal body---the tissue that is in between the vaginal opening and the rectal opening. good luck

My wife suggests that she (or both of you) have a glass of wine (or whatever you drink) before anything happens to try to "loosen" her up a little mentally/emotionally. Also, use foreplay as a means of getting her loosened up physically. Use your finger (and maybe later, two) to get her loosened up as preparation for your size. Use lube as needed. And take it slow, at least at first, until you get all the way in there. Take your time, and listen to her cues ("slower" or "that's good") so you both can enjoy it. Communication is key. Good luck!

Are the women complaining of pain from the width or the length of your penis?. If its the length you might try not going in deep .

i would offer a couple glasses of wine, but go see if you have a real problem, there is this website that shows if you have a big penis or an average one, and they compare it with the largest worldwide database, its called sizepenis dot org
go see if you really as big as you think..