His and Her Health

I can have a clitoral orgasm on my own w/ manual stimulation, and sometimes I can w/ my husband as well (w/ me doing the stimulation.) I've never had a vaginal orgasm or an orgasm during sex at all.

When we are having sex, or when my partner is doing vaginal penetration of some kind (w/ hands, etc), I'll feel more and more aroused but will come to a point where it feels like I have to pee, and like its very uncomfortable, and I typically stop whatever we are doing then. It is an overwhelming and uncomfortable feeling.

I've also had female ejaculation in the past (esp during pregnancy when I was awesome w/ my kegels) BUT it has never felt good--only felt sort of uncomfortable/painful.

Any recommendations for things I can do to change this, or why this is happening/what I am feeling? Thanks in advance for any info!!!

The sensation of having to urinate probably happens because your urethra and/or bladder is being stimulated. Sometimes women get that feeling when their G-spot is being manipulated. If you can wait it out, oftentimes the feeling subsides and the sensations become pleasurable again. But it sounds like this isn't happening for you. First check with your gynecologist to make sure there is no organic cause behind this. Assuming there isn't, can you lay on towels, relax, and just let what happens happen? You can discuss this with your lover first, so no one is taken by surprise. You may be surprised to learn that your lover may find the fact that you are aroused so exciting that it doesn't matter what your body does.

drbrandon wrote:

My husband would love it if *I* liked/loved any of this. He finds my female ejaculation a total turn on. It just feels uncomfortable, even painful to me when it happens. (I WISH it felt good/like I was super aroused!)

I will look into seeing a professional on this. Thanks for your reply!