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he can get hard but can't EJACULATE?
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9 years, 2 months ago #25345
  • lip

he can get hard but can't EJACULATE?

OK DOES ANYONE have ANY INFO, or also experience this? MALE OR FEMALE?<P> My bf & I enjoy sex very frequently. However, he can barely orgasm. He has no problem getting hard and staying. I can only make him ejaculate by 45min of oral sex. Sometimes not even from that. Only once has he ejaculated during sex, and we have no idea why it worked-nothing new. Sometimes, when he feels like he is about to ejaculate he goes soft inside me, but his penis always gets hard again. We try to find help, but we just get lumped into "ejectile dysfunction" but it's not erectile, it's EJACULATORY. No one I've talked to has even heard of this kind of thing. HELP!
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9 years, 2 months ago #25346
  • Older But Wiser

Re: he can get hard but can't EJACULATE?

His problem is that he is a bit de-sensatized which can be caused by several factors. Most likely problem when this happens is that many males get used to certain stimulations from masterbation. For example there is one guy that posted here a while back that used a pillow for masterbation for years and just couldn't get good stimulation during intercourse. The reason is that he trained his body to be stimulated by the rough pillow vs a very different feel of a vagina. So you need to get to the bottom of your bf's sexual habits and learn if he masterbates a lot or does something that could cause him to be de-sensatized. The cure for this is to stop masterbating all together. If he stops he will build up a lot of sexual tension over a few days and he will be ready to explode as soon as he enters you.
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9 years, 2 months ago #25347
  • rkgruesbeck

Re: he can get hard but can't EJACULATE?

does he take any medication for depression?I have this problem and its because I take meds for depression.if this is the case have him not take the meds for a day or so and try that, also it helps if i try different positions, the best way for me is"doggie style" <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by lip:<BR><B>OK DOES ANYONE have ANY INFO, or also experience this? MALE OR FEMALE?<P> My bf & I enjoy sex very frequently. However, he can barely orgasm. He has no problem getting hard and staying. I can only make him ejaculate by 45min of oral sex. Sometimes not even from that. Only once has he ejaculated during sex, and we have no idea why it worked-nothing new. Sometimes, when he feels like he is about to ejaculate he goes soft inside me, but his penis always gets hard again. We try to find help, but we just get lumped into "ejectile dysfunction" but it's not erectile, it's EJACULATORY. No one I've talked to has even heard of this kind of thing. HELP!</B></font><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>
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9 years, 1 month ago #25348
  • Anonymous

Re: he can get hard but can't EJACULATE?

I registered on this site just so I could help with an answer to this question. It is extremely difficult to find information regarding a man's inability to ejaculate during sex with a partner. Hereis a link to a site which discuss this problem in great detail and provide some of the answers you may be looking for.<P><A HREF="www.fertilitext.org/ubb/Forum4/HTML/000029.html" TARGET=_blank>www.fertilitext.org/ubb/Forum4/HTML/0000...l</A><P>[Hope this helps.<P><p>[Note: This message has been edited by NEWSHE Moderator]
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