His and Her Health

I was told ot post this here? the second half was a psot in the womens issues but i might go here sorry if it doesnt<P> My hormones are out fo wack i dont know whats wrong. i started my period in 8th grade it was fine for that week then it eneded up me not having one for a year and a half. went to see the doc she said nothing really wrong just getting normal so a year later after having a period once every say 3 months i went on the depo shot for the Birth control and to regulate me out, i had the shot maybe twice but each time i would be ok for a month then bleed for 3 months straight with a heavy-Medium flow. i went off the shot after seeing the hospital about the bleeding nothing wrong again. my period would start and i would have it for about 7-10 days every 2 months then skip a month. i was alos on a birth control for about 2 packts of levlen 28(the one where you take it for 3 months the have a period). to do that thoguh the doc had to make me take a control pill for 10 days to get my period started then the next take start the pill. i did that BUT the whole time i was on the pill i bled. no i'm on nothing but we (me and my partner) use condoms but i want something more than jsut that i was thinking about other types like a cervical cap or norplant or something but i dont want it to mess up my body any more. I'm back to being messed up, i had it in Sept and Oct for about 7-12 days then nows its november and nothing. i have been having sex alot ((well every few days)), i have a high sex drive. but its like its revesring from being hvaing it one month then skip 2 months. i was suposed ot start nov 20th but nothing and its the 30th i know im not pregnant(which bring sup another question) but wha tis wrong it freaks me out can i ever have kids? i'm already 18 and still this is happening? what can i do to correct this problem the doctors cant tell me anything they dont know everything ive tried so far messed me up worse.<P>1) lately the area right below my breastboneto my bellybutton (straight line no other ares of stomach) has been tenser and harder. sometimes painful to the touch. it will go away for a little then come back or i dont really notcie it as bad. it hasnt always been this way? could it be an ulcer?<P>2) as i have said in my previous post about the bleeding suppsoe dot start Nov 20th it didn't my other question is a rather odd...on Sunday night me and my bf had protected sex (condom, i cant take the pill or shot )and when he came i layed there a minute to recoup so i could at least move and flex my muscles (i was on top) well when i got off i see his face and its a look of shock his words were "Baby where is it?" i tilted my head then got what he emant and replied with a i dont...i moved a bit and felt it still inside of me..i also felt all that he put in the condom run down my inner thigh (very weird feeling, sorry for being gross and blunt)alittle got on his hip but thats besides the point. i immedatly lied down or rather fell down fro laughing and to save it from the sheets, he say up cleaned him self off while i pulled it out, we couldnt stop laughing cause i was saying eww for about 10 minuets straight and i handed it to him he did what he did to be rid of it and brought me a towel (how nice ^_^)so we put our clothes back on and cuddled with eahcother , he held me close and muttered about buying something in the next week i was highly confused but kinda got it. i asked anyways and he said a at home test and said it would take about a week ot find out anyways. the way the condom was inside me couldnt have leaked any in and i was on my hands and knees and propped upright. the outer rim of one bit was atmy outer lips the other just barely out of the outer lips so it didnt shove in all weird and i did feel it go down my thigh (-shudder-). but to be safe i am going to take that test and see. i've been so paranoid about it becuase i know its not a ery high risk of me getting with child but still ive been so worried but im trying not ot be, trying to calm down. but for the past two days even with my stomach prob i feel different. like my stomach area is chosing to mess with me and jsut weird stuff, so at random ill put my hand ot my stomach (the effect of that relaxs me greatly i do it even when im nervous) and it wil be fine, take that hand off and i dont feel good. but people give me funny look i just shrug it off. i usually only do that when i feel bad, when my stomach is fine nothing wrong yet i tend ot put my hand there on insticnt..i dont normally do that..never have? is it jsut my mind being evil or somethign really there? but if i am say with child i like this point my bf will stand by me in my decisions no matter what and supports my thoughts. <P>im just confuse don both questions.. <P>