His and Her Health

What can be done about it? My husband has been having this problem for almost 6 years. It's very frustrating and he won't do ANYTHING about it. I totally feel that I'm married to a woman. He has a very stressful job and suffers from anxiety. He says that he needs to work out, and get his anxiety under control without medications. It's been years and I'm still waiting. It's gotten to the point that I don't relax during sex anymore. Sex has become ALL foreplay and just 30 seconds of real intercourse. I told him that I'm not lesbian and he KNOWS I enjoy intercourse more than anything else. <P>I'm very unhappy and he won't do anything. I just turned 30 and all my 20's went by been very unsatisfied with my guy. He's great with everything else. But isn't sex important in a marriage too?<P>Thanks in advance for any help.

Hi Older Student-<BR>Sorry you're dealing with this for such a long time- by now, it's become an issue in your marriage, I'm sure.<BR>The good news is that PE is treatable- but only if the person seeks help. <BR>Sometimes the best way to approach this type of issue- a partner who won't acknowlege a problem- is to see a counselor (alone if necessary, or together). They are often able to talk about difficult topics, or help you to do that. A competent sex therapist might be useful at some point too.<BR>Good luck.<P>------------------<BR>Supportive Guy