His and Her Health

Hello, I'm quite embarrassed to be talking about this, but I'm somewhat concerned. After my divorce 6 years ago, I went for 5 years without a sexual partner. I didn't masturbate. The few times I had tried it, I felt guilty. Then, about a year and a half ago, I met someone. The sex with him was awesome. Unfortunately, we don't get to see each other that often, and I find I miss not only the intimacy, but the orgasms. Now, I find that I masturbate almost everyday and achieve orgasm, usually 2 times. Is this normal for a woman? I'm beginning to wonder if I have some weird addiction. I mean, I look forward to my time alone with myself everyday. Is there something wrong with me? Any advice? I actually prefer intercourse with my partner, but I am concerned at how often I am now doing this, considering I had rarely masturbated before. Egads.

You're just waking up! I masturbate every day, even though I am quite active with my husband. Do you have any idea why you felt guilty about it before? How are you harming anyone by masturbating? Even if you're very religious, the restrictions about masturbation apply to men - since they are spilling seed that might create a life. But for women there's no such consideration.

Enjoy your awakening sexuality!

Eva, I never considered that, as I'm not a christian, now. But, I was raised christian (very strict). Perhaps that is my reservation. I don't adhere to christian philosophies anymore, but I suppose they do affect me. Oh my, I love pleasuring myself. I would like to share it with a man.

Thank you eva.

Nobody can love you like you love yourself.

WHERE DO YOU MASTURBATE AND HOW LONG DOES IT USUALLY TAKE?

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<small>[ 07-06-2006, 09:08 AM: Message edited by: Moderator ]</small>

ok I used lower caps.
happy (smile)

yes