His and Her Health

I am a 58 year old woman who remarried 12 years ago after 15 years alone.

My husband and I are still on our honeymoon in many ways. Maybe it is because we never had spouses who liked to make love. Maybe it is because we want to make this a lasting marriage. I am not sure why it is so wonderful but it is.

The reason I am writing is because I saw the show you had on female ejaculation. We have always had a great sex life and we have just done what felt good. About a year ago I started feeling a climax inside me and feeling a lot of liquid after we made love. We found a movie on Squirters and realized that I ejaculate. The longer it goes the more I climax in that way. My husband really likes to satisfy me even when he can't come. It doesn't seem to bother him if he can't make it. He has said that I am the most responsive woman he has ever known because it has gotten to the point where he just has to kiss me and manipulate my breast and I come. Is this normal for a woman that is almost 60? I always figured that at my age my sex urges would get less not more. We usually make love 3 to 5 times a week depending on if any of our 5 kids, 8 grandchildren or other relatives come over. Let me know if I am normal or weird. Do most people in their late 50's get a more intensive sex life. I can't just ask our class mates at the next get together.

Any insight to this would be appreciated.

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Dear gmabert, I am in my 50's and have found someone in his 30's who is just a much better lover than I have ever had before. I am much more sexual now. I am more verbal about what I like than when I was married. I didn't want to hurt my ex husbands feelings and he was just a lousy lover. By the time we divorced he was impotent.
So I had to take care of myself and I hid it so as not to put pressure on him. I just figured it was age and knowing what you won't put up with that makes later in life sex better. I don't know that this is any enlightment for you.

You are one of the lucky ones. I, too, have just discovered this wonderful place where you are at just 7 months ago. It is a revelation that I just can not bring into words. We have been married many years and last night and other last nights recently make it like on our honeymoon.
Whatever it is that has happened I do not want it to go away.

What you are probably doing is ejaculating G-Spot fluid. I do this too. I do this to the point where we had to get a new mattress cover and last night when we got out of bed there again was another large, very large spot. I do this over and over. Each pleasure is rewarded. I had to go to two doctors before I finally was told what it is. Consider yourself very lucky to be pleasured like this. I do. How old he is does not matter. How young he makes you feel does. Enjoy all that you have. Make love seven times a week if you want to. Our sex life is unbelievable. We adore each other like you do. How do you truly explain heaven.

You are so normal and we are so lucky as you and I are reaping the benefits of older age and so responsive. My husband can touch me and I melt. I can have an orgasm just when he touches me like you can. Since I have been doing Kegal exercises it is better than before. I do not think that any younger woman out there can understand what passion that a woman can feel at this age. You would empty your soul for your lover.

These are questions you can not ask anyone but when you and your husband look at each other you both have this precious secret of the most wonderful and sexual love possible. Be happy. I am so happy. I have grandchildren too and a lover as you do. If you are weird, I am weird. Thanks for letting me know that I am normal. In trying to help you, you have helped me.

WOW! I am so happy to know that I am not alone. I too am a "squirter". We laughingly call it a reichter 9 orgasism. I was initially embarrassed by this but my lover ( the most incredible man) made me feel safe and okay to let myself go. The intensity and intimacy of this type of orgasism is more than I have ability to convey. I am "one of the lucky ones". I too have a man that can touch me and make me weak in the knees and I'm not even standing. It feels so wonderful to be able to have the level of intimate conversation that allows us to attain the amazing sex life we now share. "SQUIRTERS RULE"

Originally posted by Bjo: It feels so wonderful to be able to have the level of intimate conversation that allows us to attain the amazing sex life we now share. "SQUIRTERS RULE" [/QUOTE]

It is truly something else. I just can not convey the pleasures of this wonderful act. You have said the magic words, safe and let you be yourself. I know where you are as my man does the same to me. It is so wonderful to be able to have this intimate conversation and in such good taste and learn from each other. We are both so very blessed. Thanks so much for sharing.