His and Her Health

I am thirty years old and I just had my first external orgasm. I felt like an idiot since I soaked the sheets. Is this normal. I don't have anyone close enough to me to ask this and I am already too embarressed to ask my husband if this is normal.

I wouldn't be worried. I is normal for a woman to have 'climax emission' I TOTALLY make a mess too. Do you think you could quantify the amount of fluid?

I just posted an email to B&B about the fluid. I must keep a very absorbent towel under me! I wondered if this is normal, but now I feel comfortable with it. What I want to know now is: Where does the fluid come from and how can I get it out without a man??<BR>This is very important to me as I am single and am feeling VERY bloated!

Please let me know what they tell you, I am still a little confused about the whole thing. As far as trying to do it by myself, I haven't tried that. Not sure .. But let me know if you find out<P>Thanx

Ejaculation is something most women aren't used to doing (Mom always told us not to make a mess!) There is a video called "How to Female Ejaculate" that I hear is pretty astounding. <BR>For starters, your normal reflex when about to cum may be to contract your vagina upwards. To learn how to ejaculate, focus on letting your vagina relax outward when you cum. Another way is to relax downward during when cumming during g-spot stim.

An easy way to keep the sheets dry (and to avoid excess laundry) is to use the large 'incontinence pads' (approx 12"x24")that hospitals use on beds. You can buy them at the drugstore. Some brands are more plush than others. They actually lock the moisture in and are a lot more comfortable than soggy towels if you keep going for another O. When done you just throw it away and no one has to sleep in the wet spot.

I just got a book called "The Clitoral Truth" by Rebecca Chalker and there is a chapter in it on female ejaculation. The gist of it seems to be that many women ejaculate but not all women do.

i do that also, but where is it comming from and what does it consist of? it is a very large amount and sometimes i ejaculate over and over at least 8 or more times during one episode of sex. where does this fluid store?<P>------------------<BR><BR>**just love everybody**

i do that also, but where is it comming from and what does it consist of? it is a very large amount and sometimes i ejaculate over and over at least 8 or more times during one episode of sex. where does this fluid store?<P>------------------<BR><BR>**just love everybody**