His and Her Health

I have been married for over 25 year and have three kids. My wife had a boyfriend before me and was very sexually experiential with him. When we first dated she did a few things like oral sex but never all the way. Our sex life quickly turned into missionary sex. For over 27 years I have had sex in the same way. We never went through what normal couples go through experimenting sexually. Never had that almost anything – anywhere passion. She did with the old boyfriend, but not me. What do I do?

Although I'm 19 I still can you give you advice especially from a female point of view. This is what you do. <BR>1. Set the mood by cooking her dinner(canlelight dinner)<BR>2. While eating excuse yourself from the table. without her knowing play the song that you both liked when you met. then ask her to slow dance.<BR>3. After eating have a nice bubble bath ready with rose petals in the tub or surrounding the tub. Have candles in their too. Wash her up.<BR>4. When you're through direct her to the bedroom where there's slow music playing, candles lit, and roses on the bed when the covers are pulled back. <BR>5. Give her a full body massage with some oil. Kiss all over her back. <BR>6. Turn her over and massage her breast,lick her nipples, stomach , make your way down further until you start giving her oral sex. <BR>Oh make sure you find out her favorite fragrance in candles. Most females prefer VANILLA. If none of this works then I don't know else to tell you. Just type me back when you've done this and we can go from there.<P><BR> Ms. Brown<P><P>------------------<BR>

So Sweet,<P>I have the same problem except it's me that wants to experiment and my husband has no desire to change things or experiment. I've become very frustrated and gotten to the point that the anger has built up because I just don't feel like he cares that I am not totally satisfied. Have you told her how you feel? What you would like? Maybe she's feeling some anxiety because she is unsure of what you want or expect. I can't imagine going 25 years doing it the same old way. Wish I could get my husband to be as open as you are. Good Luck