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I just watched Discover Health Show B & B, "Can I Really Do That" - female ejaculation. My husband and I watched in awe as Dr. Berman helped Christina determine that the fluid that is expelled during orgasm is not urine!!!!! Thank thank you thank you!!!!! I cried after that segment because I finally know that I am not crazy. There have to be more of us out there. My Gynecologist referred me to a urologist who said "there is no such thing as female ejaculation and it is urine". Then I went back to the Gyn and he said he has "NEVER heard of a woman ejaculating and that it is most likely urine". He is the Gyn specialist in the Denver area. He said wait until May and he might have an answer because he is going to the Gyn Assoc of America or something like that and MAYBE he will hear something. OMG. He did a search on their website and found nothing and sent me on my way. Let's stop this from happening to other women. I was devastated and felt disgusting thinking "what if it is urine??" (I pretty much knew he didn't care enough to really figure this out and that it was not urine). Let's get the word out on newsgroups and send information to the Gyn's that are not as smart as the Berman's (or just don't care) and let them know that this is real. Please respond. I cant wait to hear from others<P>------------------<P><p>[Note: This message has been edited by NEWSHE Moderator]

I think that a lot of women ejaculate but just don't know what it is and as a result think they are urinating during sex and get embarrassed. I ejaculated occassionally when I was youmger, but as I get older do it more frequently, maybe because I am more relaxed during sex.
My sex partner always thought it was great even when I wasn't sure what was happening and is very supportive.

I am able to do this as well.
I had one guy I was with that it discussed him, but my husband of just over 20 yrs loves it. We decided to do research and have found a lot of information online about it. We've known for yrs that it was urine. He didn't think it could be because it didn't taste, smell or look like urine.
I find my best orgasms are when I have a release, sometimes I don't release a lot and it just trickles out, but other times I soak the bed. try doing a search for squirting, you may find more inof about under this. Due to pron sites they are now referring to it as squirting. It's the same thing, the more you can learn to control your pc muscles the better and stronger the release will be.
Don't worry about and enjoy. There are a lot of women that do this and don't realise they are squirting becasue they don't have much come out. Those of us that have a lot come out can feel embarrassed and we should be celebrate this ability. We are able to have full complete orgasms. Something to celebrate, not be embarrassed about.

I would like some info in laymans terms on how to squirt. I think it's awesome and my significant other is interested too but no matter how many movies i watch or books i read i can't do it. It doesn't help that they all say different things. If any of you girls have any advice, please fill me in!

Do a search on "female ejaculation"

Sooz,
Yes. You are correct... there are more of us that ejaculate than we realize! I remember feeling really embarrassed when it first happened to me, but if it is "normal" then why should it matter? Maybe we ARE the ones that "Fully" Orgasm like eds40 put it.

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