Re: Serafem?
I was put on Prozac at age 9 or 10, and it killed my libido. I used to have sexual fantasies and masturbate, but after I started Prozac, that budding sexuality just vanished and was no longer a part of me. I didn't understand why, but the interest...the ability to even HAVE fantasies, the desire to masturbate, were just gone (I had been doing this in bed at night before I went to sleep for YEARS). <P>Prozac did nothing good for me. Being on Prozac for the long-term has the same side-effects as the illegal drug Ecstacy...depersonalization, being unable to find the right word for things, et cetera. Prozac changes the structure of the brain, and, in many individuals, it turns off one of the serotonin receptors, the one that causes libido. It doesn't always turn back on after you stop taking it! <P>I was on Prozac much too long (10 years), and because I started taking it at such a young age, I didn't know what side-effects to even watch for. After being on it for about four years, I became severely, suicidally depressed, and remained so for the next six years. At that time, I was switched to Zoloft, and felt a little better for a month or two, but then more of the same. After 9 months on Zoloft, I said, "Enough is enough! This anti-depressant is doing nothing, I'm still depressed!" It was not until later that I learned that being on anti-depressants for too long can MAKE you depressed! <P>A few months after going off Prozac/Zoloft, my depression lifted. It was like it was a whole different world. I was 19 then, and all of a sudden, I discovered the miniscule remains of my libido...there was hardly anything there at all, and at the time I didn't even percieve that I had gained this microscoptic bit of desire after going off Prozac. But I became a little more open at that time. Throughout high school, I had NO libido. I didn't understand why anyone would EVER want to have sex, and I gained a little understanding after going off Prozac. It changed from, "I never want to have sex!" to, "If I were with the right person, maybe...." Still no fantasies, no desire to masturbate or anything, but at least more than I had! <P>If I were you, I would not go on an anti-depressant for depression. Look into the herbal anti-depressants Sam-E and 5-htp. Users on this board have had great sucess with them. But you have to do it right if you do it. These things, from what I hear, are great. There's one dose size, and if it's going to work, it'll work in a few weeks (2 weeks?). If not, try the other one, and only if that doesn't work should you try an anti-depressant. <P>I should also mention, Prozac has been proven "barely more effective than the placebo." Prozac is 18% more effective than a placebo (not significant), and with an effective placebo (one that gives you a side-effect so you think you can't be on the placebo), it is much less effective. I am not sure on the percentage, but I think it was something like 2-5% more effective than an effective placebo. So it helps SOME people, but not the vast quantities they claim! I do hope this helps. <P>Now, for the other parts, are you taking any medications? From what you've described, it sounds like you might be taking a birth control pill or other hormonal BC method that is messing you up. Or, your hormones might just be out of whack. Even a small hormonal imbalance can cause a lot of problems. Loss of libido (particularly accompanied by lack of sexual fantasies) is often a symptom of low testosterone. This can also cause tiredness. I am not sure about mood swings, but I want to say progesterone??? I'd DEFINATELY get these hormones checked out before trying to "fix" it with Prozac! <P>Testosterone<BR>Free Testosterone<BR>SHBG<BR>Progesterone<BR>Estrogens (3 kinds)<P>And let us know about any meds you are taking...many meds can affect libido! <P>Also, I am seeing tiredness and loss of libido and have concern that it might be your thyroid. You may want to look into symptoms of thyroid problems (particularly hypothyroid).