His and Her Health

I did not know you were in pain; thank God you are better.<P>Thanks for your encouraging response to my situaiton.<P>I'm so glad you are actively pursuing medical help. Sounds like you are making some good choices.<P>l

I, I'm not sure what you mean...do you mean before? Sex was painful for me for quite a while, but it hasn't been in about 10 months now, because I solved that. Now I only have pain if I'm inadequately aroused, and of course that is perfectly normal. I am not sure where you are referring to, though. Thanks for your concern.

Well, I may have been dreaming . . . I thought I read that you were had severe pain in a lump in your labia (who knows I must have mixed up someone else's post with yours)<P>l

Oh, yeah, that...you know, after the pain went away I forgot about it! I have had 4 lumps like this now. I actually talked about this to my mom and she has had them, too. She told me that they were "vaginal ulcers," in fact, she told me, <P>"I used to get those all the time, and your father was inconsiderate he would make sex last for like an hour, and then those would become vaginal ulcers. I never found a cure or anything, and you know one time the doctor said he thought it looked a lot like herpes, but it's just there. Just don't have sex when you have them, or you'll get ulcers." <P>Well, of course we have abstained when I have those, as we were not sure what they were, and they hurt also, but even if they were not painful I would want to abstain for fear they could be contagous. <P>But, these things last for a little while, and then they are gone. The gyn I went to told me they were backed-up pores, kind of like zits, but I wasn't sure about that. In any case, if my mom had them and never found a solution, this is just something I'll have to deal with periodically. I somehow consider this a whole separate topic than my FSD, so I was confused when you posted this. Hopefully, I will not have another of these for a while!

Anon,<P>I never heard of those. Doesn't sound too pleasant.<P>My computer crashed. I am on someone else'e computer and I can't tell by pink or symbols whay I've read or not read.<P>I hope I get my computer back soon. <P><BR>l<BR>