His and Her Health

My huby is bisexual, and seeks other sexual partners behind my back or so he thinks. The kicker, he's only like this hen hes wired on speed.

Do you have a particular question regarding this?

Why does he need speed to perform sexually, with anyone or anything he wants, and that I should let him look around, since I won't give in to his non-love raw nasty sex romps. When he's straight, it's excuse after excuse, or wham-bam-3-minute-man, twice a week, maybe if I nag or rubbed him. He says I need a pill or something that makes me as horny as he is when he's wired..the trouble with his logic is that I'm horny at least daily, no drugs needed, and he's horny,(three times a month=4 hours of great sex) 25 minutes total the rest of the month.He also becomes or leaves the closet, seeking bi curious meetings when he's wired, when straight, zip

I'm not an expert, but I did a little searching around. Here's one quote I found:

A powerful stimulant of the central nervous system, methamphetamine works by inducing the release of high levels of dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with our natural reward system. But meth also seems to destroy the cells carrying dopamine and serotonin, another transmitter. Animal studies have shown that high doses of methamphetamine destroy the nerve connections between neurons.

What I think this means, is that while speed makes him a lot hornier and makes sex feel better, over time it will destroy his ability to perform sexually. After awhile on the drug, he will need it - he won't be able to have an erection any other way. And after a longer while, even the speed won't help.

Not happy news! Also, if he's trolling for gay sex, are you sure he's taking adequate precautions against AIDS and other diseases? Are you safe?

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