His and Her Health

Hi, i posted earlier for tips on reducing pain and discomfort during sex. what i'm realizing now, is that the pain i was describing may be the need-to-pee feeling that some people get when they're on their way to orgasm. when people ask me if i enjoy sex, i don't neccessarily enjoy it, but if i knew that feeling was a foreshadow of the big O, maybe i would enjoy it. that pee feeling is uncomfortable and annoying but not so much painfull. however, it can get unbearable. i think this has something to do with hitting the G-spot. does anyone ever get these peeing feelings? especially if it's followed by the big O?<BR>thanks alot

Vee...Do yourself a favor...pee before having sex. It has alot of advantages other than releif from the feeling you are describing...Doctors say that if you pee before and after sex it can reduce your chances of an UTI and Bladder and Kidney infections. Yes it is possible that the peeing urge that you feel is connected to the"big o" as you put it. I just have one other question for you...How old are you? That will help us answer alot of your questions, giving us the chance to decide if it may be just an immature body or maybe a sign of a more serious problem...thanks and i hope this helps...Angela

I am 20 years old and lost my virginity 5 months ago. so i suppose i'm relatively new. i already had UTI's before, so i'm religious about peeing before and after sex. the thing is that, when people who enjoy sex tell me that they do get that urge to pee during sex, how can they enjoy it. it's uncomfortable for me. i try to stick it out and see what happens after it, but maybe i'm not holding out long enough. i just wanna be sure that this is something i want to ride out in order to reach the ultimate goal, or if it's just an inconvenience during sex.<BR>thanks

There is really no way for me to answer that. I have the urge to pee when the g-spot is stimulated but if I ride it out then i can orgasm hard enough to completely drain all of my energy. I know it is uncomfortable but if you can just try to hold on and not think about it (i know that is funny isn't it) Maybe the "big o" will happen. Try to relax and not think about the orgasm. sometimes that tends to ruin the mood when it is getting good.....am i takeing too long to orgasm or am i doing something wrong....that kind of thing. Just take it easy and relax....maybe it will come to you....keep us posted.

thanks lot missann, i think i'll be able to ride it out knowing that it might not all be in vain. it's just that i can't understand how some people can like that feeling so much. maybe it's cuz they know what's coming afterwards. i'll see if i can get him to go for a while to see. by the way, i know everyone's different, but like is there an average time it takes for a women to finally get there? just out of curiosity so i know to hang on twice as long as that... thanks again

Vee, There is really no way to detemain how long it will take you to climax. There are some who go very fast and others who can take what seems like forever...just depends on your body......Good luck and keep me posted...Angela

Hey, VE1101.<P>I think I might understand what you're talking about. It might just be the feeling of being hard (having an engorged clitoris). That feeling can be unbearable sometimes and naturally leads one to seek relief.<P>Since sneezes are controlled by the autonomic nervous system, like orgasms, compare it to the feeling you get right before you sneeze. That can also seem unbearable, but you forget all about it after you sneeze.<P>On the other hand, if you repeatedly felt like you were about to sneeze and didn't, it might drive you crazy. Being hard and not having an orgasm repeatedly could also drive one crazy!<BR>