His and Her Health

hey guys~ here the story....me and my boyfriend have tried constantly to get me to orgasm but i dont know if he has done it yet. what should i feel??? i know when he fingers me he hits a spot that feels great but when he hits the clit it felts weird and discomforting...whats should we do???

It will be very difficult for you to orgasm with him unless you figure it out first on your own. I assume by "fingering" you mean he has his fingers inside you. If you prefer that over clitoral stimulation, you may be a woman who prefers vaginal orgasms over clitoral orgasms. Explore yourself on your own, perhaps with the help of a vibrator, to find what touch feels best to you, and then show him what you like.

*Blue*, somewhere on here a month or so ago I saw suggestions for particular brands of vibrators; some suggested by the Drs. B & B. Since I just read many replies from you to others on numerous topics, I'm hoping you can put me on the right track for highly successful and recommended instruments.

This post will probably get zapped, but I've tried a lot of vibrators and nothing can beat the Eroscillator. The only drawback is even on its lowest setting it's pretty strong, so if you are looking for something with very light stimulation it's not the toy for you. Otherwise it's perfect; it feels different from other vibrators because of the different motion. And it's almost completely silent, plug-in-the-wall, never overheats, waterproof, and in a pinch you can take off one of the four attachments and use it inside you (although without the attachment on it's noisy). The big sell, though, is the strength. Three settings, and the highest is very strong. It's a work of engineering genius.