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I have only been sexually active for about 5 years. I currently do not have a steady partner. My problem is that I can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation w/ a vibrator during masturbation. When I am with a partner, I never climax.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by kjan:<BR><B>I have only been sexually active for about 5 years. I currently do not have a steady partner. My problem is that I can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation w/ a vibrator during masturbation. When I am with a partner, I never climax.</B></font><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Hi,<P>I have only ever orgasmed from clitoral stimulation. This is normal for a lot of women. In my relationships, I/we bring me to orgasm before or after my partner. You could do the same, using a vibrator. Or you or your partner could use the vibrator on you while you are having intercourse.<P>Check out Zaneblue's posts for info on how to improve your orgasmic response.<P>Good luck.

Also, a woman can wean herself off of vibrators--it takes effort but it can be done. Still requires lots of clitoral stimulation, however.<P>The way to do it is during sex or masturbation to use the vibrator as little as possible, on the lowest setting. Use manual or oral stimulation to get as close as possible to orgasm, and then the least bit of vibrator stimulation necessary to orgasm. Once a woman can orgasm simply from manual stimulation, there's a trick to then being able to orgasm during actual intercourse. But first a woman has to acquire that sensitivity.<P>And then of course there are vaginal orgasms. I believe that most women can have this ability by following my diet, and it certainly takes the pressure off during sex. Although having clitoral orgasms during sex is an awfully fun goal too. Vaginal ones are just lots easier, and fit the activity better.<p>[This message has been edited by zaneblue (edited 01 September 2003).]