His and Her Health

Hello ladies...I am looking for a bit of information. I am fairly sexually inexperienced and very friendly with my vibrator. Twice during masturbation, at the point of orgasm I have experienced what I thought was ejaculation. <P>The first time it happened was also the first time I had ever masturbated using a vibrator. This time when it happened, I noticed that the fluid was actually yellow and smelled ever so slightly like urine. And boy what a mess!<P>Is this female ejaculation? Is this something else? Thanks in advance for your help.

Yes, that's female ejaculation. Female ejaculate comes from the urethra, and unlike men women don't have a valve to shut off the bladder during orgasm, so the ejaculate does get mixed with whatever urine is in the bladder. One way around this is to empty your bladder before sexual stimulation (although there still may be trace amounts). I just want to reassure you that a separate ejaculate fluid is produced during this process; even with an empty bladder this fluid can be ejaculated. It's clear and non-sticky, like water. It is messy--I recommend doing it in the bathtub or using lots of bath towels underneath