Re: Question about Smoking - Professional Answer Please
Not really sure how long smoking, but at least 15 years, about 1 pack a day. Only medications I'm on is metformin for diabetes, but not bad - medication keeps it under control. No other medictions, not on birth control, average weight, maybe 10 to 15 lbs over, but not obese. Healthy diet I believe - low carb, but do include plenty low starch vegetables Not very physically active, but not sedentary either, just average day-to-day activities. 43 years old. I have not had hormone levels tested, was just looking for self-help before talking to my doctor. The reason I was wondering if it was blood flow problems from smoking is because I have an extremely high libido, no problem with desire, and have very adequate lubrication. Wonderful partner, communication with him is perfect, no problem asking him for what I think I need, and no problem from him in receiving what I need. He's great and will do anything I even hint to. This relationship began after a long period of abstinence for me following divorce many years ago. Then when beginning this new sexual relationship after many years without sex, I found something missing. With every good thing that is going on (desire, lubrication, experimentation, and love), only one thing missing - clitoral sensation - almost none - nearly numb...and it used to be there, so it goes without saying "NO Orgasm". Everything feels wonderful, but no prize at the end, if you know what I mean. I still enjoy sex very much, and look forward to every time, but really, really need to feel that sensation again. I have tried taking L-Arginine capsules before and it actually helped in increasing desire even more, although I didn't need help in that department, but it did nothing for clitoral arousal. And once even tried one of the clitoral enhancement gels - nothing there either. So I just began some internet research, and read about the relation between smoking and arousal problems. So that's where the question came from. It just frustrates me so, that having all the other factors in order, there is no clitoral stimulation. And I'm even wondering why, if there is a problem with circulation and blood flow, how do I manage to have such adequate lubrication. Doesn't that also depend on blood flow to achieve lubrication. Seems to me that everything I've read about sexual dysfunction (low estrogen, low testosterone) any of those problems, if it was any of that, why do I have everything else except the clitoral sensation. Looks like any problem would effect most everything sexual as a whole, and not just the clitoris. I'm just at a loss here. Willing to try anything, and willing to give up any bad habit to get that "tingle" back I used to know.