It does sound like your pelvic floor muscles are spasming and tightening after you masturbate. when you orgasm the muscles contract to aid in the orgasm; however, if the muscles are abmornally tight or spasmed, they have a difficult time relaxing afterwards. This can result in constipation, urinary frequency, urgency and retention. I suggest seeking out someone who specializes in pelvic floor dysfunction:
www.nva.org, www.pelvicpain.org, www.ica.org, ic_network.org,
www.apta/womenshealth.org (and click on PT locator).
My book, Heal Pelvic Pain, may also answer some of your questions.
Good luck, amy
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