His and Her Health

Hi, I believe I'm a virgin...I mean, i've attempted trying to have sex with my boyfriend a few times now and havent been successful. When he fingers me, only one finger can fit in my vagina right now. I was looking in the mirror today to examine and was curious and saw my inner labia is small and very much tucked into my outer main labia. I saw pictures of other women and noticed their inner labia hang out or are somewhat exposed while mine are tucked in very tightly. Is this normal? And would that make it harder to lose my virginity or fit a penis? Because we have been having a hard time. I'm 19 by the way, so I think I've grown as much as i am going to.

You might have a little more growing to do but in the meantime here is a link to a website that will answer a lot of your questions.
www.teenwire.org

Does anyone have a clue about whats going on? Even if I do have more growing to do, Im ready for sex - my boyfriend and i have been together for a very long time - and this is a little frustrating for me!

Amy, women's genital area including the labia come in many shapes and sizes.
Have you ever had problems inserting a tampon or when the gynecologist uses a speculum?
I have treated many women who have been unable to have intercourse due to muscle spasm or pain, but I don't think any of those cases were ever due to a labia minora being "tucked" into the majora.

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