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TOPIC: I'm 21 and have no Sex Drive!

2 years, 11 months ago #10319
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I'm 21 and have no Sex Drive!

I'm completely confused because I am 21 years of age, and I have no sex drive. I never even had one in high school. I started having sex right after my 19th birthday and continued having sex for about 6 months, and now its been a year and a half since I have had sex and I have a new boyfriend that I would like to atleast enjoy sex with.

Is there anything I can do over the counter to help me get a sex drive and be able to achieve an orgasm?

Thanks for any help...

Valerie
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2 years, 11 months ago #10320
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Re: I'm 21 and have no Sex Drive!

What have you tried doing by yourself or with a boyfriend to have an orgasm?
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Re: I'm 21 and have no Sex Drive!

It could be physical---are you on birth control, b/c that changes your hormone levels, and with some women it decreases their libido. Or, you may need to try different things to help stimulate you. have you tried masturbation to see if you are able to get stimulated and orgasm?
It could also be a mental issue. If you are stressed or anxious about anything, that alone can interfere with your sex drive. How is your relationship with this current boyfriend?
There are a bunch of different reasons for decreased sex drive, so you have to try to figure out what the problem is.
Amy Stein, MPT
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