Re: Ok, this might be stupid question but????
As a child my mom required i live to her rigid expectations;she was emotionally, sexually, spiritually, physically abused/abusive;so be it:after years of professional help I returned to help her die in dignity, alzheimers didn't prevent her disclosure of her incestual parental abuse/resentment, her journey thru poetry to self love. She even dying gave me one of her poems to remember her by. Life ain't just grief but "as love self, love other."