His and Her Health

I was wondering basically what´s normal in a relationship. I´m interested to know your thoughts:

(Question for women)How long does it take you to get fully aroused? I mean from the moment you start kissing etc

Do any other pre-menopausal women have problems with dryness?

Do you ever have sex with your man even if you´re not aroused? And does this cause you thrush & cystitis (as happens to me if I ever do)

How often do you typically make love? This is interesting when people explain how long they´re together and their own age.

Me, I´m posting here because I´m 28 and recently married (although with my man for 6 years) and although things have been great in the past, at the moment we seem to be going through a bit of a DRY spell!