His and Her Health

I too have a VERY hard time reaching an orgasm. I have the desire and I feel my husband tries to stimulate me in all the right ways. If we use a bullet or a vibrator I have more sensation but it usually takes a good hour to get me to cum and then 50% of the time that doesn't happen. I always feel the good sensation of sex but can not get over the hump and feel the strong pulsations of an orgasm.<BR> 3 years ago I was diagonsed with hodgkins and one of the chemos I took has caused damage to the long nerves in my hands and feet. My hands fall asleep often because of this damage. I am wondering if this same chemo could have damaged the nerves in my clit and if so what can I do to help me achieve the big O???