His and Her Health

Hi,<BR>I have been with my boyfriend for about two years and we still have an EXCELLENT sex life but here lately he has been waking me up at night or early in the moring by pleasuring me, mostly oral but the weird thing is when i wake up i realize he is still asleep kind of like sleep walking but sexually. Why and could this mean something?

My goodness gracious. He sounds like a keeper to me!

I had my last child because of this.

Joesph Mario,<BR>what do you mean you had your firs kid like that.This happen to you, do you know why this happens, dreams mabey?

That used to happen (with my wife and me) years ago when she had no interest in sex. I would go as long as I could without "bothering her" but then my body would just take over in my sleep. Neither of us would fully awaken.<P>It certainly wasn't ideal.<P>Your situation sounds very different as you say you have an excellent sex life.<BR>

I've heard of this sort of thing happening.<P>I almost envy the ease with which other women can be penetrated!<P>As one with vaginismus, I can assure you, that sort of thing just would not happen: any attempt at penetration would instantly awake me from the deepest of slumbers, and you'd hear my yelping as far away as in good ol' USA!!!

Pinky,<BR>I thought of you when I posted; vaginismus would make that impossible.<BR>

Hi, I found this thread by chance and would really be interrested in what others think of this subject. The second person who answered " He is a Keeper" had exactly the same reaction as my girlfriend, who it seems thinks the same as 2 of my sister's in law as it seem that both of my brothers do the same thing and one of them also concieved their first child that way. My girlsfriend general remark is " who would ever think of complaining when you can get it unless it becomes an issue" This type of occurrance is supposedly very common but most people do not talk about it as it is in general a pleasant thing ) But if it becomes a problem then what, and then who is or has the problem ????<P>I woulkd really be interrested in hearing about people who know or who have this type of situation, thank you very much and have a nice day/evening.<BR>Jaime<P>------------------<BR>Jaime Sastre

Tabitha, sorry It took me this long to respond. I don't why this happens, it just does. We had our first child this way because I was dreaming and found my way there with no birth control. When I try to sneek one, it doesn't work because my wife wakes up and gets mad at me. When I'm dreaming, I get it. Go figure. I've even woke up with my head between her legs and all she can say is, how did you get there. LOL LOL And the thing is, the sex is always good.

My wife does this. I am awaken by her humping my leg while she is asleep. Each time I have woke her up and she is super horny. The best sex we have! Dont know what she would do if I didnt wake her. <P>Any other women do this?

I actually hate it. He deprives me of sleep and it wrecks my whole day. Everytime I push him off about 5-10min.later he is at it again. One time I decided to pretend as if I was asleep just to see how far he would go. The next thing you know his head was between my legs. I just had to stop him and let him know that you can't do that when I'm asleep. Just because you are horny doesn't mean I'm going to roll over for you. Sometimes he acts that way if I tell him no when we are in bed before I go to sleep and other times he just tries to pull a fast one. It wouldn't be so bad, but I have the same problem as Pinky and it takes a lot to get the door open to the club. So, rolling over and sticking it in is NOT an option.

Just to let everyone know, we both were asleep. When I'm awake and try, it she wakes up and gets mad at me. Even though we are both sleeping, the sex is always great. LOL Go figure.

you should check out the following web pages:

healthcentral.com/sleep-disorders/c/5954/10118/sex/

sleepsex.org]www.sleepsex.org

my husband has the same problem and it is treatable. It is called sleepsex.

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Treatable? Treatable you say? OMG boo!

Heh, now that's depressing.


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