His and Her Health

I apologize for posting to this forum. I have already posted to the Men’s forum. I wanted a reply from a woman’s perspective.

There appears to be a variation among churches whether the act of masturbation is a sin or not. I have read that many bible scholars have concluded that the Bible scriptures imply that it not a sin. But, that the sexual fantasy associated with the act is adulterous.
How can the act of masturbation be without some form of sexual fantasy?
Consider these three scenarios:

(1) My wife helps me masturbate while I watch a video of a female model showing her completely nude body. The model is not performing any sexual act – a condition that my wife sets as a condition for helping me to have sexual satisfaction.
(2) I am alone and I masturbate while watching a female nude model not performing a sexual act. I discuss this with my wife and she approves wanting me to have sexual satisfaction only if promise to view a nude model performing no sexual act.
(3) I am alone and fanaticize about the great sex my wife and I had when we were younger. Assuming I have nude photos or videos (which I really do not) of my wife when she was younger. I would masturbate watching them.

My wife is a very caring and understanding person. She hopes that I can have a high level of sexual excitement as possible. We both are senior citizens and unfortunately she is unable to have intercourse or experience any sexual arousal activity due to medical reasons. I continue to have strong sexual urges unusual for my age and require frequent sexual satisfaction..
I would greatly appreciate your evaluation of the above scenarios and your thoughts for the appropriate one (ones) in your judgement.

broni, any one of your scenarios are appropriate for you.If your wife helps you masturbate or if she is not upset by your pleasuring yourself then you do not need approval from anyone else. It is your sexual life. Enjoy it for as long as you can.

Broni, You are lucky that you are still having the sexual urge. Its not so good that your wife cant have the same urge. Id suggest you continue with your wife helping you to masturbate. That would be good for both of you! Cheers!