His and Her Health

Hi everyone, im new at this board and was hoping to get some help. im 44yr old female and have no sex drive what so ever. Im a dead horse and im just so sick of living this way.i had blood test done and all my levels are normal so whats wrong with me? never had any problems far as rape or anything like that. this happen to be back when i was in my early 30s as well and then all my feelings came back. i notice this again i say about 4years ago.

i have read so much where the mate just dont spend alot of time with the female thats not my problem what so ever. he could go for hrs but in my mind i dont want it to last forever cause in how dead i feel i should also be enjoying this as well im feeling down in the dumps. hes very understanding i have told him its all me it has nothing to do with him at all. i am now finding myself using excuses not to many i can use really the only main key i can say is im to tired cause i had my uterus removed almost a yr so cant say its that time of the month.

does any females wonder why we have to go threw this? and think in how lucky for the ones that can enjoy there sex life? it just makes me so jealous i wish they had something out there for us females like they do for the men. i have used alot of them creams that is to make you feel hot well i dont see where they work what so ever waste of money i even tryed that new ky-gel for him and her omg that was just so sad i didnt see any fire works what so ever..

can anyone help me i know we are all in the same boat here i just want to be able to feel like a women again
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thanks so much for your time

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