His and Her Health

So I've been reading and nothing really seems to completely answer my question. Everytime I have sex I feel lots of arousal, and when my boyfriend strokes my clit I get to the point where I feel like I'm about to climax, but then I feel pain in my clit and nothing happens. I don't even know if I've ever orgasmed but I'm pretty sure I have once. Anyways, what could be causing this? How do I change it? I really just want to reach orgasm.

You need to try to masturbate and learn how to make yourself climax. Then you'll know more what you like and how it feels and you can help your boyfriend do the right things. Practice, practice, practice!

Here is a link to one of our websites . The article may give you some ideas.
http://www.bermansexualhealth.com/voxant/5-tips-for-achieving-orgasm-through-intercourse.html