His and Her Health

Hello, everyone!

Let me start off by saying that I'm still young, I recently turned 18. I've been sexually active since I was about 16. I've been masturbating for a very long time, maybe since middle school?

The problem is that I've never had an orgasm, even with myself. I've also never had vaginal sex, and dont expect to as that I'm currently dating another girl. My former boyfriend loved giving me oral, but I never came close. I also have never come close at all when I masturbate.

I am VERY comfortable with my current girlfriend (its been about six months, been best friends for two years) The other day I FINALLY got close and I got so excited I accidently stopped her. Unfortunately, we've tried three more times since then and I've gotten close, but it always fades away.

To clarify, by close I mean full body tingles, twitching, and clenching of muscles, but I feel it "fading" before it comes. It feels so good and I tense and but it just goes away. I also have trouble with sensitivity. I am not sensitive AT ALL. When just stroking or touching my clit I can barely feel anything. It takes my girlfriend lots of sucking while stroking my G spot to make me get close.

I also have very irregular periods, which makes me wonder about hormone inbalance? Any help would be great!

(oh, and I also don't want to try a vibrator until I can achieve orgasm with my partner)