His and Her Health

Hello everyone,

I am a 20 year old sexually active woman who has had a problem getting pleasure from clitoral stimulation for my whole life. Now, mind you, I am a master at, well, masterbating, and can conjure up up to 5 orgasms every session when I pleasure myself, but if I go anywhere near my clitoris, there is no pleasure. I've tried fantasizing, vibrators, lubricated fingers, it just doesn't get me off. The same goes for g-spot stimulation as well. So, my secret to my own orgasms without direct stimulation. Well, I've never experienced anyone else who gets orgasms solely off of indirect stimulation as I do. Long story short, I began masterbating at 4 years old. Now, I know it sounds too young, but honest to God, this is when I started doing it, and it got to a point where I was doing it so frequently and at inappropriate places such as other people's houses that my mom had to make a rule of "only doing that private thing in private." I had, and still have a very high sex drive, however I didn't know what it was, all I knew was that it felt good. Here's what I did, and continue to do now to bring me to mind-blowing orgasms: With my underwear on, I firmly place two fingers in the space between my upper outer labia and my thigh, lie on my stomach, fantasize, and voila, orgasm after orgasm. It's hard to explain what I do to get there, but it never fails, I know before the orgasm that I tense my leg muscles and I think my vaginal muscles as well, but it just happens. So, what's wrong with me? I want to orgasm the normal way, and I want to be ablet to experience that with my boyfriend. Any advice on what I have, and how it's physically possible to orgasm this way is greatly appreciated.

You may get some helpful information from Dr.Beverly Whipple's book,"The Science of Orgasm"
There is an exerpt from that book on one of our other websites.
http://www.hisandherhealth.com/content/

Can you do it with your legs spread? If so, you can replicate it with him inside you.

Or you can teach him where and how to press while you tense your legs. I bet he'd really get off watching you have orgasm after orgasm. This is just a different form of manual stimulation and frankly it sounds just great to me, if a little unusual. You can have intercourse after.

Perhaps you and he could try a combination where you do your thigh press while he simultaneously stimulates your clitoris or vagina. In time you may be able to associate the two or even transfer your arousal. Even if you can't, it should be fun trying.

Hi Sally,

Ur post seems to be quite old but hoping you are still a member as i am in a similar position to urself and regularly approach orgasm in this way but it never follows through completely which is very frustrating. Wondering if over the last few yrs u've maybe found any helpful solutions?