His and Her Health

I have a hopefully simple question...

I'm asking this question, because I have a neurogenic (dead) bladder, which was caused from a bad pelvic laparoscopy, along with no left ovary/tube (also due to the bad lap). I now have a "Interstim" in which my bladder only works when that is on and running.

My question is this...
What are the nerves affected with the "female sex drives", or female sex turnons etc..
Is it solely the pudendal nerve, or is it many of them?

The reason I ask is this..
since my bad lap surgery, i started having sex with my financ`e last month, (lap was in 2005), and i've had tons of dystunia (pain with sex), and burning (worse then friction burn) etc.

I talked to my local gyn, and all clear with any signs of infecs... etc..
So not sure if it's related to the bad lap surgery or something else...