His and Her Health

(May be too much info. haha)

So, I've never had an orgasm before.

Whenever I get "the urge", I rub against something, which feels good for a bit, but not long enough to do anything.

Clitoral stimulation and penetration seems to do nothing for me. It doesn't matter how in the mood I am.

I was considering buying a small vibrator.

Would it be worth the money? I don't want to buy one and then be stuck with it, haha.

If so, where can I find one for under $80, online?

I'd appreciate any advice from you guys!

Thanks.

^By penetration, I mean fingers, I'm a virgin.

My personal opinion: They are a waste of money.
In lieu of a slender dildo and at those times when you are ready for experimentation, try exercises. The ones that cause a "Keegle" type of effect. That's how it begins for some gals:)

You can get a bullet vibe for under twenty dollars online.

Hi Monicah,

I think a vibrator is a good idea, but I would also suggest some reading/videos to learn more about becoming orgasmic.

One good resource: Becoming Orgasmic. Julia Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo. This book is a classic, and it will help you understand yourself better, be patient, and give youself a guide on how to experiment.

Good luck.

Dr Z

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