His and Her Health

Can everyone that is experiencing vaginal orgasms describe to me what you are feeling?

Are they satisfying?

Do you get contractions at all?

I started having vaginal orgasms with my last boyfriend. I was around the age of 34 (almost 40, now) which I suspect had something to do with why I never had them before. They say a woman reaches her sexual peak in their 30's... also probably has something to do with being more comfortable with sex, etc.

I guess I am one of those lucky few, as I never did kegels or anything. Although, what brought me to this forum is that I think as I am aging and hormones are changing, so, it hasn't happened with my current boyfriend... yet!! I just feel less sensitive and find it's harder to become aroused. But I digress.

With my last boyfriend, I would literally have one every time we had sex (unless I was really drunk). But I had to work hard at it in my mind. Basically it seemed like a combination of the thrusting and me madly fantasizing. Don't think it necessarily had anything to do with him... he was a great lover, but I don't think that was the only factor.

I guess I have to say, I think vaginal orgasms are far more enjoyable than clitoral. It's really hard to explain the difference. It's something to do with the feeling of something inside you.
You most certainly have contractions.

I can still occasionally get them from masturbating using fingers (I should just really buy a dildo!), but I have to be really aroused, which, like I said, has been harder to achieve lately.

Sorry if this isn't much help. Tell you what, next time it happens, I'll try to concentrate on the details and post back.

Basically, I'm on this site to get it back, cuz I miss it!! Going to try the diet and just ordered my gyneflex!!!

Boyfriend coming over in like half an hour, so...
wish me luck!

Ok, so, yes... success!!! I forgot that it helps to be on top. Obviously being on top you have control of the movement... but I still have to really concentrate on fantasies for this to happen, which can be weird cuz you feel like you are distracting yourself from your partner, but I've always assumed that if you are having an orgasm while having sex... that's a huge turn on to a guy. So, basically I just got on top and forgot all about him... had to kinda fantasize while being on top and controlling the situation.

Sorry, though, I still can't explain it. Just one of those things. It's impossible to describe. I'm not saying that it is necessarily better than a clitoral orgasm cuz, who knows, maybe some women's clitoral orgasm is way better than mine... how am I to know.
It's probably all relative.