His and Her Health

Ok. This one's weird.
So within the last couple of weeks i've noticed sex has been increasingly uncomfortable and then after my vag gets really red and irritated. (We've used lube). At one point I noticed my left labia minor was swollen. It eventually went away, the next time both were swollen. Then, the one on the right swelled up 20x its normal size. It was HUGE. The size of a hamster. Awful, uncomfortable. I went to see a gyno and she wasn't really sure what to tell me; she said the fact that the swelling changed sides was "wacky." She already suggested a cyst or hematoma, but doesn't think it was either. She said it looked like it was filled with fluid, not blood. The swelling went down mostly, but now I've got excess tissue and it looks like i have three lips down there! Does anyone have any experience with this? I really need help theres like nothing on the internet thats helped me.

daisycutter123 I have copied your post to also put it on the OB/GYN women's sexual pain forum.