His and Her Health

I have been married for about 1.5 years, I have been with my husband for almost 4 years. He has never wanted sex very often (except the first 3 months we dated, and we didn't have sex the first month and a half). We have sex anywhere from once a week to once a month and have gone as long as 2.5 months and pretty much always on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon. I am a ridiculously horny person and always have been, so I end up taking care of myself a few times a week. I have tried everything I can think of: talking about it, not talking about it, lingerie, toys, initiating, letting him initiate only. He rejects me a good 98% of the time when I initiate, so I no longer do it, it hurts too bad. He could care less about lingerie, I'll try to get him to be adventurous but he's happy with the missionary position or me on top for a few minutes then back to missionary. The crap thing is when we do have sex he's very very good, I try to let him know that. I always compliment him, not just on sex, but on every aspect I can. I'm not unattractive I get complimented all the time, but I find myself crying a lot over this. Hell I even have sex dreams with him in my sleep where I get off now. It's frustrating because I know he masturbates, he doesn't view porn. I wouldn't even care about masturbating if we were having sex more. It just makes me feel so distant from him. He's just turned 27 & I'll be 26 shortly

v2b,Now may be a good time to engage in some couples counseling. If he is in good health, not on medications or a heavy smoker or drinker he may just have low desire.