His and Her Health

ok so i had sex for the 1st time last week.. i was kind of drunk the first time we did it and it hurt a bit but was grand then but then when i slept with him sober it hurt so much that i almost cried.. im scared of doing it again because it hurts too much.. when will it actually start being good??? :confused:

Kelly, here is a link to a website that can answer your questions.Please take the time to browse through it.
http://www.scarleteen.com/

It is important that you seek a vulvar specialist or pelvic pain specialist. it could be the tissue that is irritated, for example, birth control pills, decrease estrogen which can cause dryness and irritaion. It could be muscular in nature, etc. there are certain associations that list providers: www.pelvicpain.org; www.nva.org; www.ica.org

Or, it maybe it is just like my situation when it took me and my first boyfriend at least three approaches for him to be able to penetrate me without too much pain (that was 7 years ago); and, it took us about two months of many attempts before I could climax. I, personally, think that it is the matter of enough moisture, excitement, relaxation... As soon as you'll get excited enough by foreplay and your body will really want it - sex will stop hurting and start pleasuring.