His and Her Health

Hello,

I am man who has been going out with his gf for a few years. Over a year ago sex became painful for her. This resulted a serious loss of libido for her and inevitably caused much tension in the relationship as I was not as understanding as I should have been.

Eventually she had the problem resolved by way of a small operation (im not sure what it is called). The problem is that she has reawakend her sexual desire but she seems to have lost her attraction for me and does not really want to be touched.

This is really killing me as I want to be with her but if the desire is not there on her part it would make very little sense as we are still young.I think she wants to give it a go but her desire is gone for me at the moment and she does not know how she will get it back, if at all.

Has anyone experienced this before and if so is it possible to reawaken her desire for me- i know women's sense of attraction is different to a mans.

Any opinons, advaice, links etc would be deeply appreciated