His and Her Health

I know most if not all clits are so sensitive, that any direct contact hurts, or in the very least it very distracting. Thats why when i give oral i try very hard to not make direct contact, but focus on the area and massage the hood with my tongue. But my current girlfriend's hood is reaaaaaaaly small in comparison, or maybe its something else, but the clit sticks out, and is impossible to miss with my tongue. I can pull the hood back a little, while trying to be gentle, but that only lasts a few licks. In general, she says she likes it, but its all over when i hit the clit. And i am having a very hard time avoiding it for a minute, let alone the time it takes for an orgasm.

Any suggestions about giving oral to a very sensitive girl?

Also, i only know of two reliable ways to get a girl to orgasm. Oral and gspot stimulation. Ive had a girl cum from penetration, but she came from just about anything. With this girl, oral seems tricky, and she says she likes it when i stimulate her gspot in a certain way, which happens to be the hardest for me to keep up for a long time. She likes the hand to be stationary, and just the fingers doing the "come here" motion. The other way im used to doing it is curling the fingers and pumping the whole hand, which i can keep doing for hours, but she says it doesn't really do anything for her. So...

Any tips on gspot stimulation or more importantly any other ways to get her to orgasm?

More info... Shes never had an orgasm, but we both want her to have one. Since she is so sensitive she doesn't masturbate much. I suspect she doesn't know how, and i would like to teach her as i hear that can dull the clit a little. Can anyone here give me some tips? What do i need to know about vibrators? How do i use them?

If her clitoris is that sensitive try manipulating it with the outer labia as a protective sheet, and rub gently but firmly through the flesh. I'm sorry I can't help on the oral front but this is a half-decent way around it.

Sometimes in these situations licking around her vaginal entrance will arouse her, even using your tongue to penetrate her vagina. If approaching from a sideways angle you can do the two above methods together.

As for the g-spot part, try stimulating the roof of her vagina up by the cervix. It's just before you get to that point but deeper than where the g-spot is (I think some people refer to it as the o-spot but don't quote me on that).

One idea would be to try and get her to clamp your hand betwixt her legs, essentially trapping your hand but putting pleasant pressure on her vagina. The best way is go as deep as you can, get into position, then have her lock her ankles together and rock her hips as she wants. Using your thumb to manipulate her clitoris through her outer labia here might be the final touch needed to bring her to orgasm.

Please note that the above has worked for some people but can't work for everyone. I wish you both the best of luck.

-Bluebird.-