His and Her Health

Ok, so I've recently changed hours at work. My wife and I don't have sex often, she says she's never in the mood. I discovered my wife has been frequently masturbating after I leave. When I first found out, I addressed her about it and asked her not to do it without me. That I wanted to be the one to meet those needs. I told her I just wanted to be around for her when that time comes. She continues to do it and lie to me about it. It really crushes me. What should I do? Hide the toys? (which we frequently use together with her) Throw them away? I want her to save her libido for me, is that too much to ask?

Did you ask her way she does it? If she knows you are ready available to meet her needs and desires any time she needs it. There must be a reason for her to do it and lie about it.
I would never bring toys to my bed. just in case she liked the toys better then me. They have batteries and plug in to the wall. Toys never get tired. Humans do.
good luck